Been doing a lot of the job interview thing lately. One thing I’ve noticed is that I don’t feel like I do well when the interviewer is a woman. Seems to me (and this is all anecdotal, of course) that, whereas men interviewers focus on what you have done and what you can do, women seem to focus on what you would like to do and how that made you feel. For example, every woman I’ve interviewed with asked the question:
What is your dream job?
Thoughts running through my head were professional beer-taster, rock star would be cool, and owning my own gun company. But none of those are answers that are particularly appealing to a potential employer. So, I struggle with that question and don’t really perform that well.
Also, a popular question asked by interviewers of both genders involves assessing how you react to pressure or stress. The question has many forms but usually goes like this:
Describe a time when you faced a great challenge and how did you react to it.
Now, the real answer is to pick any situation as I tend to work under pressure a lot. And as for my reaction, it has always been to cowboy the fuck up and get the job done. Now, that answer tends to work on men (minus the cowboy the fuck up part) but for women, they follow up with asking me how that made me feel or how did that strain my work environment.
I’m not the touchy-feely sort and struggle with that sort of stuff.