But that would excuse this nonsense.
If you had told your tale a bit differently, you’d have had my sympathy. But the crazy crept in and you said:
Men Are Scum Until Proven Otherwise
You are almost as vile and despicable as this Mathew Allen White you speak of. And the only reason I say almost is because your hateful words at least have the benefit of not causing physical harm. Misandry is as deplorable as misogyny.
Via AC, who says:
On a different occasion, I might quarrel with this assertion — but not today.
Sorry, but suffering a tragedy does not bestow infallibility on the victim. I hate that it happened to her daughter and I have no tolerance for abusive people. But it’s no excuse for crazy. And it’s no excuse for generalization. What if it was a black man? Do we then assert that Blacks Are Scum Until Proven Otherwise? No, because that’s racist and unacceptable.
And Sarcastro notes in comments:
Judging from the pics, it looks like left-handers could also be called utter scum until proven otherwise.
Update: Crazy lady responds:
Never mind that my choice of words was lifted verbatim from the mouth of my daughter’s father — a man who has been issuing the warning: men are scum until proven otherwise — since the day the first boy came near one of his daughters.
Perhaps you should have disclosed that in the original post? Or, more likely, you’re making shit up. And:
The problem is not my choice of words. The problem is that a woman said them.
I don’t care who said it. It’s a vile and despicable thing to say, but that’s what I’ve come to expect from egalia.
I’m not a defender of manhood. Just critical of hysterical, raving lunatics. My sympathies to your daughter for both the abuse she’s suffered and the perverted, disgusting life lessons you subject her to.
Update 2: Aunt B weighs in. A couple of points I disagree with but otherwise, right on.